Other Religions Paganism and Wicca What is the Great Rite? And What is Ritual Sex? Share Flipboard Email Print Thomas Northcut/Getty Images Paganism and Wicca Basics Rituals and Ceremonies Sabbats and Holidays Wicca Gods Herbalism Wicca Traditions Wicca Resources for Parents By Patti Wigington Paganism Expert B.A., History, Ohio University Patti Wigington is a pagan author, educator, and licensed clergy. She is the author of Daily Spellbook for the Good Witch, Wicca Practical Magic and The Daily Spell Journal. our editorial process Facebook Facebook Twitter Twitter Patti Wigington Updated January 12, 2019 At some point during your studies of modern Paganism, you'll probably run across references to ritual sex, including - but certainly not limited to - the Great Rite. It's important to clarify what these are because you're most likely encountering statements that most Wiccans and Pagans don't really have sex in their rituals. So, what's the deal with ritual sex? The Great Rite In some (although certainly not all) traditions of Wicca and Paganism, sacred sex is part of spiritual practice. Wicca in its original form, as envisioned by Gerald Gardner, is first and foremost a fertility religion, so it's understandable that at some point you may encounter some references to sexual acts, whether they be actual or implied. By 'implied,' we mean the symbolic – the joining of an athame with a chalice, for example. The most commonly referenced form of ritual sex is the Great Rite, which is the ritualized sexual connection of the god and goddess. Author Vivianne Crowley says in Wicca: The Old Religion in the New Age, "The outer rite involves a linking of the male and the female; the sacred marriage is outwardly a marriage of two people, but inwardly it is a marriage of the two within one person." The Great Rite is more than just sexual union; it is the enactment of the creation of the universe itself in Wiccan tradition. Sexual Energy in Ritual Although the Great Rite is certainly the best-known form of ritual sex, not all ritual sex is the Great Rite. Ritual sex has a number of different purposes besides the Great Rite – it can be used to raise energy, create magical power, or find a sense of spiritual communion with a partner. If "all acts of love and pleasure are my rituals," then certainly sex in ritual can be seen as a sacramental act of love. It should also be noted that in some magical traditions, masturbation and sexual release is a perfectly valid way of raising magical energy. In Her Hidden Children, author Chas Clifton writes, "Many Pagan religions include invocation and possession by their gods. Wicca, in particular, extends that possession to sexual acts, whether literal or metaphorical," he goes on to say that by making sex sacred, "Wiccans in all countries set their own stamp on nature religion, uniting in their bodies the cosmic and the most personal energies of planetary life." Because ritual sex is a sacred act, any form of it should be consensual. In most traditions, it is also performed in private, and in all traditions, performed only by adults. Some traditions of Wicca require actual intercourse as part of a Third Degree elevation, or in rituals performed by a High Priest and High Priestess. However, many Pagans today would say that it is rarely required by any legitimate coven for initiation as a neophyte. In other traditions, the act is symbolic but not actualized. Skye Alexander writes, "Do you need a partner of the opposite gender to do sex magic? Not in most cases. Sex magic relies on blending male and female energies. When we speak of male and female energies, however, we’re not referring to men and women. Everyone, regardless of gender, has both masculine and feminine energies. Same-sex couples can do sex magic as successfully as opposite-sex couples. You don’t even need a physical partner to perform sex magic. Solo sex (i.e. masturbation) can be very effective––in fact, it may be a good idea to practice alone for a while before you start working with a magical partner." More often than not, if ritual sex is performed, it is between two individuals who are part of an existing relationship already, and who are of equal levels of power within the dynamic of the coven. Ritual sex between two Third Degree people has a good polarity to it, but ritual sex between a Third Degree and a Neophyte stretches the balance of power a bit. Think of it as the difference between two teachers who date one another, and a teacher who dates his students. Sex as Part of Initiation In general, it is uncommon for a coven to demand sexual initiation as a condition of membership. There are, of course, a number of different issues at play here - consent being one of many. After all, if someone is coerced into sex as a condition of their initiation, are they really consenting? Shauna Aura Knight has a brilliant piece at Pagan Activist, in which she points out, "Just because someone agreed to an initiation doesn’t mean they were enthusiastically consenting. If they are young, if they are new to Paganism, if they are desperate to be accepted, if there is a culture of sex pressuring, if they are shamed by group members…you might eventually wear them down to where they give in. But that’s not consent." Ritual sex – the Great Rite or otherwise – is typically a specific, sacred act that is performed only by those who have studied and learned enough to feel comfortable performing it with a trusted partner.