Other Religions Paganism and Wicca Daily Pagan Living Share Flipboard Email Print Other Religions Basics Rituals and Ceremonies Sabbats and Holidays Wicca Gods Herbalism Wicca Traditions Wicca Resources for Parents By Patti Wigington Patti Wigington Facebook Twitter Paganism Expert B.A., History, Ohio University Patti Wigington is a pagan author, educator, and licensed clergy. She is the author of Daily Spellbook for the Good Witch, Wicca Practical Magic and The Daily Spell Journal. Learn about our Editorial Process Updated on June 25, 2019 To truly walk a Pagan path, many people believe that their spirituality should be part of their daily life, and not just something they observe once or twice a month. Here's where we'll talk about contemporary issues of interest to Pagans, family and relationships, and how to live a magical life every day. 01 of 08 Covens vs. Solitary Practice Sarah Swinford/EyeEm/Getty Images People have many reasons for following a Pagan or Wiccan path. How they choose to practice is an individual decision as well. While some people enjoy the community of a coven, others prefer to go it alone with a solitary practice. There are advantages and disadvantages to both, and some people may not find a coven in their community, so they're left with no choice. Either way, it's important that you feel comfortable in your practice. 02 of 08 Meeting Other Pagans Metaphysical shops are a great place to meet like-minded people. Image by Kev Walsh/Photographer's Choice/Getty Images At some point, you may decide you'd like to meet other Pagans or Wiccans. After all, it's nice to find fellowship with like-minded people, right? You can do this in a formal setting and seek out a Wiccan coven, Pagan group, or Druid grove. On the other hand, you might consider forming a simple study group. If you do decide to join a group, there are a few questions you should ask beforehand. Understanding things like time commitment, rules, and your own spiritual growth within the group are important. You'll also want to be aware of a few warning signs that the prospective coven isn't right for you. 03 of 08 Living a Magical Life Many people combine meditation and fasting. Compassionate Eye Foundation/Katie Huisman Taxi/Getty Images Wondering how to live a magical life on a daily basis? How does one function as a Pagan or Wiccan in a society that's not? One question many ask is whether and when they should come out of the broom closet. This is an extremely personal choice, and there are a number of things to consider first. Whether you do or not, it doesn't have to hamper your pursuit of a magical life. Connecting to the earth and putting prayers into practice are actions you can do in a variety of ways. Many Pagans also choose to set goals, which gives you something to look forward to and work on. Plus, there's always a way to find time for magic. 04 of 08 Becoming a Pagan Leader Have you ever considered finding a local Pagan group?. Image by Ian Forsyth/Getty Images News Are you someone who has taken on a role as an educator or leader in the Pagan community? Do you think you're ready for such a commitment? Becoming a member of the clergy in any Pagan religion does not happen overnight. It requires time and energy, and a lot of both. 05 of 08 Handling Pagan Relationships Handfasting bonfires are a popular part of many ceremonies. Image by Benedicte Vanderreydt/Cultura/Getty Images Just like people of other religions, Pagans and Wiccans have spouses, children, and families. However, there are often a unique set of issues that go along with being part of a Pagan family. It's important for Pagans to understand that just because your faith may be related to fertility religions, sexual etiquette does still apply. This can be particularly tempting during festival season. Many people also find themselves in interfaith relationships. While this is nothing new in society, it can pose some challenges to a marriage or partnership. 06 of 08 Parenting as a Pagan What does the phrase "Indigo child" mean?. Image by Erin Lester/Cultura/Getty Images As modern Pagan religions become more mainstream and accessible, many parents choose to raise their children as Pagans as well. This can lead to a host of concerns, from schooling to legal rights, but it can also be a whole lot of fun. For instance, there are many fun activities that you can enjoy as a family. You can involve your kids in ritual practice or let them read about it on their own and decide for themselves. It is important to note that not all Pagan events are necessarily kid-friendly. The reasons can vary from no activities for kids to ritual nudity, but the organizers probably have a good reason for any "no children" restrictions. 07 of 08 Teens and Paganism If possible, have extra drums on hand for people who didn't bring their own. Image by Diane Labombarbe/E+/Getty Images Teens have a very specific set of needs when it comes to Pagan religions. This is especially true if your parents are not Pagan and have concerns over your new interest. Whether you're the parent or the teen, there are some things to consider. Parents can try to understand the faith before making a decision about it. Teens can have a heart-to-heart talk about their beliefs with their parents. The most important part is that you're both honest and allow the other to share their side. In the end, don't lie about being a Pagan. As a compromise, there are other things you can study that are related to but separate from Paganism. 08 of 08 Make Your Own Ritual Tools The besom is the traditional witch's broom, and can be used for ritually cleansing a space. Photo Credit: Stuart Dee/Stockbyte/Getty Images If you have a love for crafting and homemade projects, you'll find plenty of Pagan-centered things to keep you busy. Part of the joy of grounding and staying connected to the earth is making things. It can be more fulfilling and add more meaning than just buying your tools. For instance, it's not difficult to make your own magical oils. It's also rewarding to create custom incense blends for every festival. You might even enjoy taking on a few special projects for Yule or Imbolc. From a ritual robe to your very own Book of Shadows, the crafty Pagan has endless projects to work on. Cite this Article Format mla apa chicago Your Citation Wigington, Patti. "Daily Pagan Living." 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