Other Religions New Age / Metaphysical Overcoming Unconscious Empathic Tendencies Intentional Telepathic Communications with Your OverSoul Share Flipboard Email Print Protective Energy Bubble. Ryoko Uyama / Getty Images New Age / Metaphysical Holistic Healing Divination Chakra Balancing Reiki Crystal Therapy By Phylameana lila Desy Reiki Expert Phylameana lila Desy, the author of "The Everything Guide to Reiki," is a freelance writer, holistic healing consultant, intuitive counselor, and an energy medicine practitioner. our editorial process Phylameana lila Desy Updated June 25, 2019 This information written by artist and mystic, bj King, is extremely helpful to hypersensitives. Healers often empathically tune into their clients on a conscious level to be able to get in touch with symptoms, issues, and any crisises that are prominent. By receiving information in this manner healers intuitively diagnose and offer treatment. Even when this is done consciously, there can still be times when it is difficult to separate what belongs to the client and what does not. For example, I had a client on the healing table, about halfway through the healing my left knee began experiencing a throbbing pain. I clued into the pain and decided that the pain was in association with the client. But at the same time, I had been standing on my feet for most of the day and realized it could possible be my knee was giving me a problem. To verify my initial instincts were right, I asked the client about her knee. She acknowledged that she indeed had an ongoing issue with her left knee joint. As a routine measure I intention to be clear on receiving information in a safe and non-intrusive manner. The greater problem arises when empathic connections with other people are made unconsciously. Have you ever been in a good mood and within minutes of being around other people or stepping into a different environment your mood literally transforms into grumpiness or agitation? Well, you've picked up energies that didn't belong to you. Please take the time to read this article, it is time to change our patterning of taking on energies that do not belong to us. Overcoming Being Unconsciously Empathic in Favor of Being Intentionally Multi-Dimensionally Connected Guest article by bj King (originally published in Namaste, Inc. Newsletter) At birth we have a tendency to be energetically like little amoebas. We have unstructured borders. We move our energy fields in and around the energy fields of other people in order to check out how they are feeling. We do this instinctively for various reasons, such as" To know how to get what we want.To be safe.To understand that which is around us. As we grow older some people learn other methods of defense, understanding verbally, or methods of getting information. Some people do not learn other methods and continue to be empathic, being sponge-like in soaking up energy, information, and emotions from other people. These people find it very difficult to understand where they stop and another person begins. They have a tendency to allow their boundaries to be invaded by other people. They do not understand the concept of personal boundaries. When a person is empathic it is difficult for them to have a good self image that is not controlled by the thoughts of other people about them. They do not have a clear impression of self hood and "others." This gift of being able to read other people empathically becomes more of a curse than a gift. It is a time to give up being empathic and to rather get information for and about other people by communication directly with their Oversoul. In being empathic we are picking up information from others and carrying it for them, or acting it out for them, unconsciously. It is difficult to differentiate between what are our feelings and emotions from the emotions of others. Being empathic causes many people to be overweight and to be excessively emotional. We can cease to practice being unconsciously empathic by installing intentional balloons of cushion energy around ourselves, and by having an intention to communicate telepathically (rather than empathically) with the Oversouls of those we encounter. Recommendation: Always remember, what I write are my opinions and experiences. Trust only your own intuition. Trust only what resonates with your own truth - bj bj King, artist and mystic, is president of Namaste, Inc., a non-profit spiritual education organization, based out of Oklahoma City and Denver, CO. She works inter-dimensionally as a liaison between the Intergalactic Federation, the Spiritual Hierarchy, the Angelic realm and Humanity. Disclaimer: The information contained on this site is intended for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for advice, diagnosis or treatment by a licensed physician. You should seek prompt medical care for any health issues and consult your doctor before using alternative medicine or making a change to your regimen.