Other Religions Paganism and Wicca Croning Ceremony to Celebrate Women's Wisdom Share Flipboard Email Print Image by Lilly Roadstones/Taxi/Getty Images Paganism and Wicca Rituals and Ceremonies Basics Sabbats and Holidays Wicca Gods Herbalism Wicca Traditions Wicca Resources for Parents By Patti Wigington Paganism Expert B.A., History, Ohio University Patti Wigington is a pagan author, educator, and licensed clergy. She is the author of Daily Spellbook for the Good Witch, Wicca Practical Magic and The Daily Spell Journal. our editorial process Facebook Facebook Twitter Twitter Patti Wigington Updated March 23, 2018 For a long time, to be called a crone was an insult. The very word implied a wrinkled, hunchbacked old woman, unwanted and unloved. Women who had reached an advanced age were dismissed as useless hags, and there was nothing to celebrate about it at all. Fortunately, times are changing, and more and more women are welcoming this aspect of their life. We spend many years in the guise of the Maiden followed by a couple of decades as Mother for many of us. Why not celebrate this next phase of life? Reclaiming the Name of Crone In early cultures, the female elder was considered a wise woman. She was the healer, the teacher, and the one who imparted knowledge. She mediated disputes, she had influence over tribal leaders, and she cared for the dying as they took their final breaths. For many women in Wicca and other Pagan religions, reaching the status of Crone is a major milestone. These women are reclaiming the name of crone in a positive way, and see it as a time to joyfully welcome one's position as an elder within the community. Rejoicing in Our Own Wisdom Any woman can have a croning ceremony, although traditionally most choose to wait until they are at least 50 years old. This is partly because of the physical changes in the body, but also because five decades of learning is nothing to sneeze at! In some traditions of Wicca, it is recommended that you wait until after menopause to become a Crone. However, some women in their thirties no longer have periods, and some women continue menstruating into their 60s, so the timing of your ceremony will depend on the guidelines of your particular path. A croning ceremony may be performed by a High Priestess, but can also be performed by other women who have already attained the position of crone. The ceremony itself is typically performed as part of a women's circle, a coven's Esbat, or a Sabbat gathering. There is no set rule for how a ceremony is conducted, but many women who have achieved the title of crone find they like to include at least some of the following: A ritual bath or cleansing beforehandSinging and chantingA guided meditation honoring the archetype of Wise WomanSymbols of initiation: a staff, a special cloak, a garland or crownDrumming, music or poetry celebrating womanhoodAn altar with photos of female relatives and friends who have empowered youA celebratory mealA symbol of the passage into Cronehood, such as entering through a curtain or tunnel; crossing a ceremonial thresholdAn exchange of gifts or blessings (a croning basket filled with chocolates and herbal teas is popular) Some women choose to adopt a new name at their croning ceremony—this is certainly not mandatory, but we often take on new names for other milestones in our lives, so this is an option if you feel that this is right for you. Your crone name can be one you keep to yourself, share only among friends, or announce to the world. Crossing the threshold into cronehood can be a major event in a woman's life. It's a celebration of all that you've learned and all that you will come to know in the future. For many women, it's a time to make new commitments and vows. If you've ever had an interest in taking a leadership position in some aspect of your life, now is a great time to do so. This third cycle of your life is the one in which you become an elder, and you've joined a special group. You have a lifetime of achievements behind you, and decades more to look forward to. The word crone should now be a word of power for you, so celebrate it. You've earned it.